Girls court Guys?

Guys court girls? There's nothing wrong with it but what if girls court guys? Well, its a different story.

Most girls wish to be with someone who will love them eternally and will treat them as special someone. They want to be pampered and cared by someone whom they love so much.

But what if there feelings are ignored and remain rejected by someone whom they want to be with? Is it rightful to do the first move to reveal what's inside their heart?

Others may say, it is okay that girls would express their feelings towards a guy. But what if the guy ignores you and can't love you back? Will you be blind enough to bear all the pain and shame it may cause? Shameful and hurtful it is but be happy and be proud of yourself that you have the courage to show and express your feelings. Don't be discouraged what other people might say to you, at least you tried. There are some circumstances that a guy can't reveal their feelings to a girl because he is afraid to be ignored and dumped. But if the guy notices the girl showing interest to him, he will be encouraged to go on what his heart dictates and they may end up as a happy couple.

However, revealing feelings to a guy may result to an unsure situation. She may be played by the guy she loves or just be accepted just to boost their ego. Boys really don't like a girl who does the first move. It may create a negative impression on their part. They might think that the girl is cheap, flirt and game as well. But, girls should not be treated that way. It isn't their fault to fall for someone.

In contrary, girls should bear in mind that there is nothing wrong in revealing first but make sure that your dignity and self-respect is still intact. If you think that a guy is not worthy for you love then words are better left unsaid.